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Leisure activities to indulge during pregnancy

Can this happen and if so what are the kind of activities that you could indulge in?
Meeting a friend over coffee: Once in while, having caffeine is not bad and you could surely catch up with your best friend or a bunch of friends who understand your need to feel good during pregnancy. This could be at someone’s home or at a café of your choice.
Watching a comedy movie or well known cartoon movie in theatres: Being pregnant does not mean you have to cut down completely on your social activities. Unless instructed by your Obstetrician who would have informed you to curtail your social do’s you need not fret. Yes do not be over adventurous to watch action or horror flicks as these are not really recommended as more than having an impact on the child you might get frightened which is not good. Instead, have fun by watching a good comedy flick or cartoons. It’s better to enjoy watching cartoons; sooner or later you will be watching much more once your baby is a toddler!
Go for shopping: Maternity phase has undergone a huge transformation. The shopping that you do in this stage for maternity clothing will not come back again. So while you shop to wear such clothes, do understand not to over indulge as these will be of minimal use post pregnancy.

Go in for allowed beauty pampers at a good salon: Going in for a manicure or pedicure will do good to your relaxation quotient. However be sure to inform your beautician that you are pregnant as some salons assign special beauticians to take care of you.
Going for a nice drive: Going out for a nice drive is definitely not a bad idea.  Early mornings or late evenings when the weather is good, you could of course go in for a nice long drive with an experienced person who knows to drive the car well and not cause jerks.
Reading: Pregnancy is a time especially your second trimester onwards you would realize you will have to be calmer and paced out in your life. So if you are not working make sure to utilize the time by reading not just on pregnancy books or infant care but others that you like. It could be magazine or novels. Reading will be a treasured activity that will be difficult to indulge in once you have the baby until the time the little one is less dependent on you.
So enjoy and take care.
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Lost without searching?

TRENDS We have come to a stage where we are all excessively dependent on search engines — whether it’s a pasta recipe or your doctor’s analysis, finds RESHMA KRISHNAMURTHY SHARMA

As the Internet has become an integral part of our lives, we are now using the Web space for work, correspondence and social networking. One product of the Internet, the search engine, has become so essential that most urban users cannot think of alternative tools.

Why do we use search engines? Because it offers instant answers to whatever we ask? The World Wide Web is a huge resource, and a search engine organises the information we are looking for, whether it is a question of etiquette or resume writing, or where to watch a movie, in any form we like.

Amrita S., a homemaker pregnant with her second baby, says she uses Google and Yahoo to learn more about parenting, recipes and just plain news. “Google or any other prominent search engine ensures I am very much updated on world happenings. Moreover I do find would-be mothers or anyone who wants to know anything that a doctor has said will definitely search for that condition, therapies and medicines available and how to tackle it.”

How dependent are people becoming on search engines? For Priyanka, a class 12 student, searching is an inevitable part of her life. She looks for information on a host of topics, whether the musician or lyricist of a song she liked on the radio or in-depth analysis of a subject that has been explained in class that day.

With many websites, including search engines as part of their page, people feel search engine information is trustworthy and presented as though a friend has shared it with them. Says civil engineer Akhila Haranahalli, “I use it mostly to learn more about anything from a pasta recipe, to why a certain friend’s platelet count went up. It helps as a source of reference pictures for sketching. Yes, it is fast and gives one information about almost everything under the sun. Also, the content is trustworthy and if someone mentions something that I have no clue about, I quickly do a search and update my knowledge about it.”

Do search engines encourage students to use shortcuts? Rishabh, a class 10 student, says he is so used to Googling — when he has to look for background material for his projects, the latest wallpapers, or anything on teenage issues — that he finds it hard to manage without it even for a day. He adds that searching on the Net has made life easier for him in completing his homework or projects and that’s what gets him hooked on to search tools.

Entrepreneur and techie Sheshgiri Kamath explains how search engines became inevitable. “Search engines are a means to an end, the end here being getting information. They do make the process of getting information infinitely easier and efficient than what we did in the past. However, even if they did not exist, our need for information would always exist and the human brain would have come up with alternative ways to get this information. This could be reading, travelling or something else altogether.”

What is revolutionary is the way they now work, he says. “Search giants are already mapping our search behaviour, which enables them to show customised search results, based on our online behaviour. This is like them knowing what is going on in our head and it is simply amazing. We are already living a future, where we are being given answers, even before we can finish asking our questions. It remains to be seen just what form search engines will take in the future. ”

John Battelle in his book “The Search” states that every day millions upon millions of people lean forward into their computer screens and pour their wants, fears and intentions into Google.

That human input is what is making this phenomenon something different from the kinds of research we used to carry out. “Link by link, click by click, search is building possibly the most lasting, ponderous and significant cultural artefact in the history of humankind: the database of intentions.”

Published in The Hindu Metro Plus on April 2, 2012. Link to the article-

http://www.thehindu.com/todays-paper/tp-features/tp-metroplus/article3270919.ece

TRAVEL AND PREGNANCY

Planning to start a brand new column regularly- Hope many from the related community would find it useful. Initially this would be collated information from various sources  and drawn from my own experience. I would be trying to incorporate a medical practitioner’s view at the earliest.

However the content under this column is to be taken for reference and please ask your Obstetrician or Pediatrician for further advice on pregnancy and child care. Happy Reading…

Welcome to the world of pregnancy and kiddo care!

Travelling during pregnancy poses a lot of queries for would-be- mothers. Is it safe? What care I need to take while travelling by road or air travel and so on. Many families in India are acceptable to the fact that a pregnant lady can travel by a train journey if her doctor gives the permission. Train travel is perceived less jerks, room for walking and provides the lady can take rest due to the structured seating design. While this is true, it is better to travel during your second trimester.

Please remember make tour travel plan only after informing your consulting Obstetrician and after he or she gives a go-ahead.  You would be most comfortable between tour 14th and 28th week of pregnancy. Early stages of nausea or vomiting would have traduced and you would be comfortable with your body. You would have not yet put on too much weight and would be easier to move around.

The following suggestions are for that one-off long distance trips. In case you are working and have to travel every day then make sure you travel in a car rather than the auto rickshaw in India to avoid unnecessary jerks and bumps. If this turns out rater expensive, choose to travel by buses where you are assured of seating space. Be watchful of your movement during boarding and alighting on the footboard. If seating space is just not available for a day in the metro train or the bus hold on to the railings but at all times be safe. If you feel uncomfortable do not hesitate to ask for a seat or get down at the nearest stop.

Long Distance travels

LAND OR ROAD TRAVEL

If the choice is to travel by road, try and choose a comfortable car. Needless to mention short travels are better during road trips in pregnancy.

The seat belt should be worn correctly. For a better grip for you and your baby within you, wear the seat belt below your belly and directly across your hips, not across the belly. This is good both on safety and comfort wise.

Be sure to take a break like rest stops every hour. Walk about for a few minutes before moving forward in your trip. This is to ensure you are repositioning your body and getting up and walking helps in aiding comfort level during long distance travel in pregnancy.

Make sure to frequently rotate your ankles and wiggle your toes. This will help the body to keep the blood circulation. And of course be sure to be dressed comfortably.

Essentials to carry during you road trip:

  • A small pillow for your back
  • Water
  • Healthy snacks like fruits, sandwiches prepared at home
  • Books to read
  • Music to listen on headphones

AIR TRAVEL

  • Do ensure you let your doctor know that you are travelling if need be by air. You might need a medical certificate as a requite by some airlines to allow pregnant women to travel. Choosing an aisle seat with enough leg room will help you get up easily when you want to walk about or use the restroom.

Things to take note of during your air travel:

  • Do not hesitate to ask the flight attendant for any kind of help to make you feel comfortable during the journey
  • Your entire medical history copy
  • Avoid if possible long hours while travelling by a flight
  • Eat foods that are well cooked (veggies, fresh salads, fresh fruits and clean water are your safest bet).
  • Make sure to wear support stockings for your legs to avoid swelling.

RAIL TRAVEL

Many Indian women prefer using the trains while travelling long distance. It is safe though you should carry your medicines if you have been taking, choose lower berth and utilize the space by moving around once in a hour for five minutes.

Essentials for Rail travel

  • Make sure to take a small pillow for your back
  • Books that you like to read
  • Music to listen on your headphones

So if you want to travel during your pregnancy make sure to have a safe and enjoyable trip.

My experience: I have traveled by car short distances within the city and by train on long distance. I was careful and did enjoy my travel and never faced any complication due to my state of pregnancy. Thank God!

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Time to get smart about art

While visiting an art gallery for fun might be a distant dream, attitude towards art is changing, writes Reshma Krishnamurthy Sharma

While browsing a newspaper are you tempted to skip the art exhibition listings? Do you feel movies or malls can be entertaining but a visit to an art gallery is not for you? Is it lack of interest or awareness that keeps many people from venturing into an art show?

Indira Bhardwaj, partner Rightlines Art Gallery, feels that people commonly consider an outing to an art gallery elitist. “Over the years basic art forms like glass painting or something on fabric may have become accepted in the society but when it comes to larger canvases, people prefer to shy away. Of late there has been awareness amongst youngsters, yet I do wish that people understand art is something that is very much a part of our life!”

She adds, “One must also get rid of this notion that visiting an art gallery means you cannot look and come out without buying.”

S.G. Vasudev, a well-known artist, says the scene has changed greatly in the last ten years, but galleries will never attract the numbers that a music performance does. “It is not just traditional any more. A lot of experimentation has gone on, unlike music which is more traditional. This is slowly making people interested in art. It is also heartening to know that many art spaces are trying their best to get more people to visit them and their artist’s works.”

Strangely, while parents encourage their toddlers to draw or colour, they worry if their older child spends more time on art than on academics.

Srividya G.S., a watercolour artist, feels this is also changing. “I feel a lot of parents have realized this is a viable career option in recent times. As far as understanding on the subject goes, more people seem to understand art and view it even as an investment.” Still, she adds, buyers prefer traditional figurative art over abstract art.

Meenu Jaipuria, owner of the Mahua art gallery, says, “We have worked with children on folk art, etching and printmaking for adults, but the initiative of taking art to common person has to begin from school and institutional levels along with galleries as a collaborative effort. Thankfully parents are slowly encouraging their children to follow their talent. However, I think this ratio has to rise in huge number to make art a regular part of our life.”

Vasudev feels that society must be educated to appreciate contemporary art. “Artists should be employed by schools so that the children get better education in art. It’s time that children should be taken to museums to keep them updated on various interests in life. This has been done in the west. We do not have the habit of visiting art galleries and museums. Only when the child starts going to these places, the adults will follow.” He and other Bangalore artists have formed a group called Ananya Drishya to run workshops and lectures on art appreciation and to create a digitized library on art.

While it may be a long time before art can actually be seen in every person’s drawing room, smaller initiatives could make many of us look beyond malls and movies for entertainment.

Published in the Hindu Metro Plus on February 29th 2012.

Link to the article- http://www.thehindu.com/life-and-style/metroplus/article2942086.ece

An experience watching Kahaani-Vidya Balan starrer

Since the time I have enjoyed reading novels which is more of a recent activity than my teenage habit, I have enjoyed murder mysteries and thrillers. Whether it was novels, plays or movies I have always been fond of thrillers, particularly murder mysteries.

Watching ‘Kahaani’ was one of the most enjoyable activities that I had undertaken in leisure since the last fortnight. An actress who undoubtedly gets moulded very well under the supervision of an able director, Vidya Balan really makes you feel heroines in Indian cinema can get audiences without a ‘hero’.

I was not in too much awe of ‘Dirty Picture’ due to various reasons as I somehow felt skin showing was not really required for the script. (I don’t care if you think I am of conservative ideas. But it’s my opinion).

Being a mother myself and reliving the pauses that the actress shows to indicate a pregnant lady’s gait, mannerisms, and opinion of how others view a pregnant woman in India was really good. Yes like a good story the movie keeps you engaged until the end and it is the end that makes you feel it’s paisa vasool. For a person like me watching pregnant women on a daily basis (courtesy the place I work, a mum and baby care hospital), the climax did give me a shock value to make me feel ‘ God forbid I witness something like this in real life!!)

One of the few movies where you keep going back to the scenes to relive those moments, Kahaani is something I would be happy to recommend for others to view it.  And I am indeed contemplating of watching it again maybe with a few women colleagues. Let’s see.

BANDIPUR & MASINGUDI -TRAVEL DIARY

It’s difficult to write a travel experience as I have never acknowledged my feeling of travel memoirs anywhere. However I do feel it’s time I write a few about the places I go on vacations as a matter of rule, henceforth.

Recently I was with family to Bandipur and Masingudi. A jungle experience was not the first time in my life as I have been to Sunderbans, but Masingudi particularly the resort where we stayed gave a glimpse of basic living with animals like herds of deers and sheep.

A complete cut off was not possible yet my stay at Masingudi was better than the government run Jungle Lodges at Bandipur. We did take the Safari and enjoyed it though we hardly spotted any animal but things like a true jungle experience at Bandipur was completely missing and that’s what we were looking for at Bandipur.

A movie that the resort officials screened on tigers to be saved made me a bit more sensitive towards animals.

Yet it was the nature walk that I took with a guide and Evelyn a resident of Germany made me feel the jungle experience was truly enriched. I will try to post a few pictures of this trip –being with nature was exotic, eventful though I am not sure I can live in a jungle for over three days. The guide who took us for a nature walk made me feel animals have their own world and we do not have any right to intervene. As the line in the movie at Bandipur depicted even tourism is not really welcome at jungles.

Will probably write more detailed ones of travelogues next time though I do not want to pen down the itenary followed during my holidays.

Lastly make sure to stay at a known jungle resort (do enough research on what they provide and yes do not be taken by fancy names)  at least once in your life. It makes your feel closer to mother earth.

The one and only English?

More and more children now speak only in English, and are losing sense of their mother tongues completely. RESHMA KRISHNAMURTHY SHARMA tries to figure out where the problem lies.

“Ruchika, do you want this book on Winnie-the-Pooh or the Doraemon series toys?” asks Sandhya Rao to her two-year-old at a bookstore. It may seem ordinary, but the toddler replies in a language that was never her grandmas’s or even her mother’s own. An increasing number of children, especially in urban areas, are speaking more English than any other language. Has English become the new mother tongue in many homes? Given the environments in which Gen X children are growing up, the answer seems to be ‘yes’.

One contributing factor could be that in recent times the country has seen a significant rise in inter-regional marriages. Perhaps parents feel it is better to communicate in one universal language than to speak to the kid in two regional languages.

Shiril Pinto, a HR professional, talks to her three-year-old in English. “I am in a mixed marriage where my mother tongue is Konkani and my husband’s is Bengali. As we were unable to learn each other’s languages, we have resorted to speaking to our kid in English. Also, as we have always communicated to each other prior to marriage in this language, it just continued as a natural progression of communication at home.”

Chaitra Kiran has different reasons for choosing English. “I do speak in Kannada and am married into my own community. Yet, I feel parents like me have started stressing English because we see children are not able to understand anything if they are not fluent in this language and somehow it has become the common spoken language in activity centres, play areas, in upscale apartments and so on.” Book stores, children’s activity centres, play-homes, and even workplaces encourage the use of English than any other language. The presence of international schools in cities and strict codes in even regular schools on the use of one common language has somehow pushed English into homes as well.

Moreover, parents often believe that speaking in flawless English from a young age, children are better equipped to work in global environments, so they converse in this language predominantly so that their child is not left behind.

Smitha Roy, a communication professional, did not make a conscious decision to speak in English to her three-year-old daughter Aahana. She and her husband have always spoken in English as a matter of convenience. She adds: “Somehow, even my parents conversed with me and my sisters generally in English, perhaps because we went to a convent school. I ensure Aahana learns Kannada from her grandparents. I don’t her to feel she did not get the opportunity to learn any other language.”

According to Nandini Ashok, an educator who runs a preschool, “I personally think parents these days find the interview process at the kindergarten level cumbersome. It is unfair that the child is spoken to in English, and there are lesser opportunities for Indian languages to be learnt and of course, this in a certain way pressurises parents to speak more in English.”

Yet parents who speak to children only in English are content that it is a global language and that their children will learn other languages if they are interested in them. Fifty years down the line, will we be surprised if English becomes the single spoken language and kids go to special schools to learn India’s regional languages?

Published on www.thehindu.com under LifeStyle and Society section on February 12, 2012

Kabhi, kabhi mere dil mein…

Jan 20,2012:

TOUCHING A CHORD

Lyrical melodies or funky upbeat numbers, Hindi film music has always connected with the whole country. Reshma Krishnamurthy Sharma tries to explain its popularity.

EVERGREEN HITS Whether it is  foot-tapping numbers like Ra One’s Chhammak ChhalloIt’s been 100 years since cinema officially made its presence in India. ‘Pundalik’, a recording of a play directed by Ram Chandra Gopal Torne was released in 1912, while the more well known movie ‘Raja Harishchandra’, a full-length film directed by Dada Saheb Phalke released in the year 1913. It is over eighty years since India’s first talkie film, Alam Ara, was released. The movie and its music were a big hit including the first song of Indian cinema, “De de khuda ke naam par.”

Since then songs have become a key to film plots, and except for the rare filmmakers, none dare make movies without music. No wonder then that Hindi film songs have been a major source of entertainment for generations of Indians. Just ask middle-aged people about their younger days, and many will nostalgically reel off the popular songs of that period. In fact, after cricket, it is film songs that bind the country as one.

Hindi film songs have loyalists across the length and breadth of the country, regardless of regional differences. These songs, lift arrest their mood swings, keep them away from boredom, and most of all keep them entertained and happy. For example, Abhilash Sivadas, a visual artist, says he listens to the old time classic, Kabhi Kabhi, as an anthem everyday. “I cannot work without listening to film music, which means I am listening to them for about eight to nine hours a day.”

To cater to these fans, we have private FM radio stations playing film music, just as government-run stations like AIR and  FM Rainbow which have dedicated slots for loyalists. Moreover, the key ingredient of many of our events is film music. You’ll find fans jiving to these desi numbers,  books being churned out on Bollywood songs, and events organised to pay tribute to renowned singers, musicians and others from the film industry.

What is it that makes Hindi film songs so popular that radio stations, wedding celebrations, reality shows, discotheques, and parties are never complete without them?

Perhaps, it is because this music touches our senses and emotions in a special way.  In our country audiences tolerate hackneyed plots and characters, but when it comes to music, people demand and expect originality.

A strong factor that makes or breaks a film is its music. Many times, it is the music  that lives on even after the movie is forgotten. Film music has a tremendous amount of marketing glitz attached to it and every effort is made to make it a crowd puller every time a film is released. Even if the film flops, its music connects with us over a longer period of time.

Says Prithvi Vishwanath, a very popular RJ of Radio One, a station that plays only Bollywood music, “I have grown to be a Hindi film music fan from the time I joined Radio One.”

He further adds, “I find Hindi film music very popular amongst our listeners. Clever utilisation of the media, marketing, glitz and glamour, and of course some genuinely good music make for some potent ingredients to popularise Bollywood music. At our station, although we do play retro music, but it is more of the 90s. In fact recent research results point out that our people have quite an appetite for retro music and melodies rather than fast numbers.”

Another huge fan of Hindi film music, is an active participant of a semi formal group known as Recreational-Music Indian-Miscellaneous (RMIM), which strives to remember and revive old memorable songs. Chetan Vinchhi says, “Personally I do not like most of the music churned out in the last two decades, due to the fact that songs these days are more processed and synthetic and the voice is less important. But I must admit that Hindi film music has had a mass appeal for years. Undoubtedly, it is an art form with no parallel. It encompasses the common man’s cultural identity like nothing else does.”

So whilst there are weddings and other  functions at home that have us play these songs, there are also rituals like  the Mehndi and Sangeet that depend on Bollywood’s numbers. In fact, although these ceremonies were initially region-specific, they have now become a must in  many brides’ pre-wedding itinerary.

According to DJ Jasmeet, known for his penchant for playing funky and upbeat numbers, “Bollywood music is something that has tremendous mass appeal and many understand the songs and can dance to them even if they are not very conversant with the language. A lot of people can relate to them even if they are the kind who party only once in a while.”

Its ability to provide a temporary escape from mundane worries, as well as its ability to identify with personal situations have continually contributed to the popularity of film music. It has a certain style that even someone not trained in music can appreciate. This is an advantage that film music has as other forms may demand a deeper  understanding.

Most of us remember popular songs and associate actors and actresses with them, and subsequently singers and music directors. So, no matter which genre of music is introduced to further generations, as long as movies are made, Hindi film songs are going to be evergreen forms of entertainment.

Published in the Deccan Herald Living Supplement as Cover Story on January 21st 2012.

An online link to the story- http://www.deccanherald.com/content/220789/kabhi-kabhi-mere-dil-mein.html

Where stomach meets heart

TRENDS-  Bangalore’s affair with darshini hotels has been a long and steady one,  observes RESHMA KRISHNAMURTHY SHARMA. Even in the face of MNC eateries, what wins the foodie’s heart is the taste of home food

Even in the face of MNC eateries, what wins the foodie’s heart is the taste of home food What defines Bangalore’s culture? If you look at the lines on the street corners, the answer seems to be the darshinis. At any given time, thousands of people in the city are bent over their idlis and coffee at these convenient and affordable eateries.

Today there may be debates over how many can actually survive competition from international chains and the test of rising prices, but darshinis have ruled Bangalore for over 30 years. True darshini eaters vouch that these little joints serve as their second home, and many have their favourite darshinis for different foods such as dosas or coffee. Darshinis are everywhere. They allow diners to be themselves, without bothering about dressing up. Hot food is served almost instantaneously and diners often share tables with those from different walks of life, adding to the cosmopolitan opportunities of Bangalore. A neatly dressed corporate executive could be sharing his table with an auto driver. They need not make eye contact and yet they can both enjoy their snack or meal. Why do darshinis hold a special place in the Bangalorean’s heart?

Says Sriharsha, a businessman who eats at a darshini almost four days a week either for breakfast or lunch: “It’s no frills and that’s what attracts a person like me, where I can save time and eat food that I have grown up eating in the most economical manner.”

For Leela G., homemaker and mother of a seven-year-old, “If I am not cooking at home, the easiest, cheapest, nearest, and come to think of it, the most nutritious food that comes to my mind is getting idli or upma or some rice preparation for my son from a darshini. The international fast food chains or high-end restaurants are reserved for special evenings but something that is immediate, almost like home food, prepared in a hygienic way has to be from a darshini.”

Does she think the darshinis represent Bangalore culture? She adds, “I am not too sure about that, but I do know Bangaloreans would not want to miss out on having darshinis in the city and nothing immediately can replace them.”

Most Bangaloreans are used to eating South Indian food daily and the quickest way to find it outside their homes is to head to these tightly packed little spaces. One of the pioneers in running such a business is Radhakrishna Adiga, who runs Brahmins Coffee Bar in Shankarapuram. “It was Brahmins that started this concept of standing and eating together since 1965,” he says, “but a few others marketed their business with the word darshini and that became popular. The word darshini means having an open kitchen in front of customers.”

He points out that customers nowadays often want to sit and eat more leisurely, but he feels that those darshinis will survive that have won their customers’ hearts by serving tasty food over many years.

Darshinis are also serving food other than traditional Karnataka cuisine. Radhakrishna adds, “With just about 20 per cent who are Bangaloreans and the rest of the city population coming from other States, the food at darshinis has moved away from just south Indian cuisine to north Indian, Chinese and few other snacks.”

For Goutham Halkurke, a software consultant, darshinis are a place in which to chill out with friends. He is fond of particular eateries like Veena Stores in Malleswaram, Mangala in Srinagar, and certain SLV restaurants and Brahmins for the idlis. “If you ask me, darshinis have become part of Bangalore evolution. We have grown up seeing these eat outs, eating here, and as long as they serve food that is good they will not leave Bangalore.”

Priya Sebastian, illustrator and avid food lover, says, “I completely enjoy a snack at a darshini that is nutritious and low on calorie content compared to any fast food chain.” She cooks many south Indian dishes herself and relishes eating, either alone or with friends, at eateries that make authentic food.

As a food blogger puts it, darshinis will forever echo the vibe of Bangalore.

(Published in The Hindu Metro Plus on February 7th 2012)

An online link to the article- http://www.thehindu.com/life-and-style/metroplus/article2869327.ece

DEBONAIR DEV ANAND …GONE TO ETERNITY

I had the opportunity to speak to him once at Taj West End over phone. As an excited RJ I was trying my very best to get him to FM Rainbow studio but he politely declined saying it wouldn’t be possible this time. When I asked how would I get in touch with him again he said very flamboyantly “ When Dev is in Bangalore you will get to know my dear”. Sadly that never happened.

I believe he would always prefer to stay in the West End when he would be in Bangalore. Having read his biography, I had been impressed with a personality who admitted to several relationships openly, believed he was a good looking charmer and a visionary who could direct films all his life.

I admired his grit and courage to carry on with life didn’t care if people appreciated his work or not. But yes I guess like most other celebrities or why just celebrities, even ordinary people were scared to show of his wrinkles on his neck.

Today while radio channels would be playing his songs he would defiantly be remembered for giving us some memorable songs in which he acted and made us fall in love with him. Bye Bye Dev Saab. Might meet you sometime somewhere else .God bless.